Interesting that this thread is called, “Blame the shadchanim.”
Everyone is searching for places to place the blame for their problems with shidduchim. We have the age gap theory, the vile vicious mothers of boys theory, the ridiculous useless resume theory, and now- the incompetent unreasonable shadchan theory.
Anyone with a functional brain and moderate reading skills perusing some of the posts above, will buy the complaining singles a mirror and say, “Ladies & gentlemen, the fault lies not in your shadchanim, but in yourselves.”