and im sure there are no horror stories of men in egalitarian homes who were too darn lazy to take out the garbage and made up a dumb shittah to validate themselves?
There was a story though of a Bochur who, following the Rebbitzen’s shittah, almost starved to death because he was unable to bring himself to enter the kitchen to get food.
He subsequently was forced (as he was so hungry) to eat (the story is unsure at this point) either the Grogros of Rav Tzaddok or CMOT Dibbler’s “Sausage inna bun”, and that was the last of him.