Reply To: Marrying Someone as a Chesed Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Marrying Someone as a Chesed › Reply To: Marrying Someone as a Chesed January 9, 2013 8:42 pm at 8:42 pm #918641 HaLeiViParticipant In most cases, the greatest favor you can do to someone you don’t really want to marry, is not to marry him/her.