Reply To: Guys, girls- things NOT to do or say on a date Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Guys, girls- things NOT to do or say on a date › Reply To: Guys, girls- things NOT to do or say on a date November 18, 2012 9:42 pm at 9:42 pm #908067 oomisParticipant Do not EVER talk about former bad dates or any of your ex-boyfriends/girlfriends.