Reply To: More shidduch advice Home › Forums › Shidduchim › More shidduch advice › Reply To: More shidduch advice March 16, 2012 3:42 pm at 3:42 pm #907967 popa_bar_abbaParticipant If you are mainstream YU, you will not be talking very much about life goals on a second date. Talk about the same stuff as the first date.