“Its usually a week event, between planning, thinking about before and after, renting a car, researching places to go, talking to rebbeim”
Know what? Other than the car rental, the girl goes thru the same kishke-wrencher. Oh, and she’s working full time and/or still in school, (where tests are still given) to boot.
Not sure if you’re working or still in yeshiva, but if its the latter, stop whining. You have a ways to go before you’ve earned that right.
Oh, and one more thing.. do YOU provide a photo, or is it a given that all bochurim are AA++ top of the line?