Rabbaim,
I have spoken to the parents and they are good strong Litvish people and therefore are davening and saying tehillem. What else do you suggest?
Question: what happened to the oath we all swear at Har Sinai to be responsibile for each other especially in this Galus surrounded by ever increasing anti-Semitism?
Question: What happened to not throwing our children and making them OTD by the way they are treating through this process?
Question: What happened to these individuals, who push themselves as being role models, to actually being role models and ensuring that no child is told no and rather yes to their #2 or #3 option?
Question: What happened to the idea of Chillel HaShem in that we are treating our most treasured gift as rags for disposal if they “don’t fit in” or some other untangible rational?
A few thoughts to await your respond.