in my school we have a diffrent grade for chesed! if we dont do it enogh and our people call our school adn tell them we can fail and it seems really unfair!!! i mean i know chesed is a great thing but as a teenage girl that is going to a school (frum) that is also good and known for being accadamic in both limuday chodesh and chol it is hard to stay consistent with times! I think not having enought time in the day is a stuggle for most:(
