Flatbush guy- I get that “chilling” over the summer does’nt work for you, however some people do need it. For a lot of kids theres nothing wrong with traveling in the summer, having daily BBQ’s for a few weeks, and even davening beyichidus once a while (although that one is obviously not preferable it does happen sometimes when your on trips or cant find a minyan) Its part of growing up if you ask me. Not everyone wants to go to camp, personally i hated camp when i was teenager and enjoyed doing the “terrible” things you just mentioned
