The way “Postal” is addressing his question, it sounds like he is a Misnaged, so may I refer him to the one & only Misnaged Kehilla in the tri-state area:- KAJ = K’Hal Adath Jeshurun
Kehilla is an institution which offers you their services “from cradle to grave” including nursery, kindergarten, pre school, high school, Beis-Medrash, Kollel, Chevra Kadisha, Kashrus, constant availibity of Rabbonim, + a lot more.
http://www.kajinc.org/ ………. How about reviewing the website of KAJ and coming to visit KAJ, and become part of a very vibrant Kehilla.