AZ,
so your entire beef with this specific project is why does everyone need to “prepay” is that the toatlity of your complaint?
Is that what it’s about?
A nechtiger tug, just one of the many complaints.
But please address the distrust of the frum community by obligating ALL interested parties to prepay, even if its a minority who wont pay up after a Shadchan successfully completes a Shidduch.