momma- wow! Make sure to also learn to be nice to yourself and not just beat yourself up! I think the lowest point in my mothers life was when she got 3 tickets for doing nothing! She was driving in a new town and a new car with a new person who was showing her around town. the cop pulled her over for NOTHING and was extremely nasty to her. It was really hard for me- as a little girl- watch my mother in shambles crying at home. I dont think it was the ticket that bothered her so much but more the timing and place and the nasty cop!
