I went to shul for the tekios and then went outside to watch my children so they do not disturb others who are davening. I came in every so often for parts of ‘hoiche shmoine esre’. as long as I have small children my job is to watch them. and not allow them to disturb others. Shul is not a playground and fathers are not meant to babysit children in shul while the mother sleeps (unles there is a necessity- which does happen at times)
A gitt gebentchd yur to all!!