Lately I have had great difficulty finding a shul to my liking. But I would never expect a shul to change just because I like something different. It seems a little self-centered to me.
As an aside, in my travels I have been to the shul the OP speaks of in Woodmere. And I agree there is something very special about it and the kehillah. But I am not sure how just by saying to duplicate it, it gets duplicated. And I remember hearing people there mention that they specifically moved to Woodmere for the shul, perhaps if that is the shul you are looking for perhaps *gasp* you should leave brooklyn.