Seahorse -“I find it difficult to find someone with the same hashkafa as me . . . is it necessary to be on the same exact wavelength religiously or could you get married and then grow together and find some common ground where you’re both comfortable?”
It’s almost impossible to do the latter.
“Also, while I understand one shouldn’t be too picky, I don’t get all this Lazer Wolf talk . . . the man was like twice Tzeitel’s age!!!!”
See the topic in the CR titled:
“Who wants to be a Tzadaikes like Rus?”