To funny1;
(my personal opin; Music is the most imoprtant.
Many people dont want to come just to be invited- problem cuz then they come.
Make an early chuppah, invite to dinner those you really want yto, plus some almonehs from your shul. (SCHEDULE!! the pics) and then invite the world to dancing.
TO taking a break;
Can i come work or your dad? lol