i find weddings so annoying- but before you jump on me let me explain. They are all the same. There is nothing PERSONAL about the chuppa… nothing personal about the dancing. the guests usually wanna be home taking care of things- not at the wedding all dressed up…. and the chosson and kallah are enjoying but not enough for it to all be worth it. I went to a stunning Defardi wedding last night and was hooked. they are so beautiful. The chuppa has tonz of singing and its so much more personal. the kallah gets into a suit and hat at the end and came back in to dance and it was just stunning. I really thought it was so so so much nicer. (and cheaper- they dont serve a meal its all buffet)
