Visit the CR more often! You’d be hard pressed to find a more supportive, accepting group than us.
Seriously, find something you do well, and focus on that. From there, you can build on other skills / techniques.
I just picked up a great phrase a few weeks ago. Its really about disaster-preparedness and emergency management, but it works for most areas in life:
“Overcoming challenges is 90% psychology 10% methodology”
or in Yiddish its tracht gut, svet zain gut (think positive, and things will work themselves out)
There are dozens of quotes that support this idea, but use this alone as a barometer: you posted a new thread an hour ago and you got several responses sop far (and l-rd knows we’ve been busy today with other threads).
So how can you think youself a loser?