My husband knows of an older man who when he was “on the market” after his divorce, the shadchan told him bluntly over the phone:
“If I can verify you have money, today, I have a queque of girls lined up”. In fact, in one case, the shadcan had a girl under 20 who could not have children, but whose parents would have overlooked the divorced mans age (almost a difference of 20 years) if they knew she would be comfortable!
I think with older men $$$ is the bottom line. You can buy a wife.