Reply To: Which Do You Think Is More Effective? Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Which Do You Think Is More Effective? › Reply To: Which Do You Think Is More Effective? May 3, 2011 10:08 pm at 10:08 pm #764021 always hereParticipant definitely say thank you w/ a smile to show appreciation; but you don’t havta gush profusely.