@ Goq and the rest who feel that others are in the “wrong.”
Without putting in an opinion about this issue, here’s something to think about:
A smart person I know used to say, “You may be right, but are you good?” RIGHT is not always what we are trying to be. Not to say that issues do not have to be worked out–just what your attitude about the issues should be. Remember when it comes down to it every experience comes from H’. The person(people) is just a shluach.