popcorn, I agree with the concept however if the RAV says NO, that is his answer and that is what he has to go by. If that is the psak halachah we can’t go by what our own heart tells us because there is a higher authority. My heart tells me the same, I am not “making” him drive on Shabbos, he will drive regardless of my request and he will eat a treif meal on top of eat. Maybe my question should be, should I invite this guy to my house Friday night so he can have a kosher Shabbos meal instead of him driving to McDonalds and have a treif meal? I wonder what the answer would be?
