I went out with a boy who related a story about a certain Rav (he even told me this Rav’s name = no regard for shmiras halashon) – he started talking about how fanatic and “farfrumt” he was. This was a red flag for me – because unfortunately in today’s day and age there are so many people who put down Rabbanim because they don’t agree with them in different areas. This isn’t something that I wanted in a husband – because da’as Torah is so important to me. I also didn’t want my children to see how their father is always putting such great people down.
