Reply To: How do I know what gender I'm speaking to? Home › Forums › Controversial Topics › How do I know what gender I'm speaking to? › Reply To: How do I know what gender I'm speaking to? December 13, 2010 3:25 pm at 3:25 pm #717145 RuffRuffMember It might be better without it. The coversations won’t stop, it will only cause trouble.