Oh well, I posted the siman in Kitzur earlier but i guess nobody looked at it. After all, if you really do feel taht looking at women is OK, then I guess the Kitzur is irrelevant. And Mod, Tu B’av is not done anymore and you know that. Whatever the reason was back then it was. It isn’t anymore. I’ll be hit on the head for this but who cares. We have a pejorative term when someone gets engaged NOT through a shadchan. Who was the shadchan? Choshku (general translation means desire). Basically it means they met somehow and decided this is it. Of course many will say hey so whats wrong with that? nothing.
