aries2756:
First of all, I’m not quite sure why your post was directed to me, seeing as I can’t figure out how it would respond to anything I said.
Second, you seem to be expecting, if not demanding, an incredible amount from the school system. Remember, the teachers/principals are often overworked, underpaid, and only human. You may be expecting too much from them.
ICOT:
“No rebbe or menahel should consider this type of step without thinking hard about if they’d consider this a fair way of dealing with their own child.”
True. But on the flip side, no Rebbi or Menahel should consider accepting a student without first thinking long and hard whether they’d want him/her to be an influence their own child.
“If parents have to be asked to remove their child from a school it should be done in the most bekovadik, private way possible, and the school should also continue to be involved in helping the parents place the child elsewhere.”
Couldn’t agree more.