Ben Torah,
So, then, what derech of teshuva do you recommend for those of us who met our future spouses in this manner?
Obviously I don’t have (and never can have) charatah because it led to my meeting my wife, with whom I have been happily married for almost twenty years and with whom I have three wonderful children. If I had to do it again, I would in a heartbeat — I can’t imagine life without my wife and kids.
So, in my situation, how does one do teshuva? Or am I burdened to live with the sin for the rest of my life?
The Wolf