Listen, we can’t be knights of the round table; obviously resources and sanity are limited, and not everything can an issue all the time. So we do need to pick and choose, gather victories and then fight other battles.
This is a principle of chinuch in your own home as well. Our teenagers are not robots, and picking your battles is important if you want to any influence. And not all battles can you win.
Please turn on spell check. And get a new screen name. Makes it easier to understand you.