pascha bchochma
Why is asking for someone who is a talmid chacham and will have a parnassah too much to ask for? I don’t know you and what you have to offer but you seem like a good person and you should go after what’s best for you and believe you deserve the best. There are a number of good boys out there who can say over Torah and also have a degree or are going for one. It is possible that some of those boys want stay at home moms but you should know that in this day and age it is very uncommon and most girls work ESPECIALLY if they marry learning boys. I do know of a few stay at home moms but their husbands are from wealthy mishpachos so they work for the family business and the wife is at home with the kids.