Most girls – even the ones not looking for full-time learners – are looking for a boy who has a passion for learning, Yiddishkeit, etc. They want to hear a boy is excited about his ruchnios, attends minyanim, shiurim, etc. When a boy goes out & brags about his adventures, vacations, movies, TV shows, etc. – chances are he’ll be getting a “no” pretty fast….
