“I would prefer a boy who had, let’s say, a problem with public speaking, got therapy, and is now more sensitive, self-aware, and confident, to a boy who wouldn’t go because of his “reputation” and did not fulfill his potential.”
I too would rather a boy who has been “tested” or has worked on himself, and life wasnt given to him on a silver platter. But does that mean that he had to go to therapy? Whilst I agree that therapy is great for those who need it. I dont think that it is something everyone should have on their speed dial.
“Narcissists don’t go to therapy.”
Just because I’m in a nit-picking kind of mood 😉
Assuming that statement is true (I am not entirely sure that it is)Narcissism is a personality disorder, so wouldnt you as a future therapist want to help Narcissists instead of pointing them out and putting them down? They need help as do any other person with a disorder.
Bottom line is the Frum community has been known to shove all taboo subjects under the rug, hoping to make everything to look like butterflies and rainbows. Lately, thank G-d, there has been a movement to bring many issues to the forefront and I think therapy has been one of them.
Kol Hakavod to you on your career choice. I am sure that you will find that it is more that just a career, but is a very rewarding experience.