If a girl kept her past hidden and did not tell her husband that she was not a besulah when she got married, would he not feel the same way? In many cases there is no blood the first night and there are many possible reasons for that these days. Or she fakes the blood somehow, but the truth comes out later, then its ok because she turned her life around and a Rav paskened that one does not have to divulge their past?
Don’t you think that a man would be just as devastated and want a divorce?