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Is it really so hard to understand why people enjoy being single?
Its nice to have freedom and time. Time to go to school, travel, enjoy life with friends.
A family is wonderful – I love my family. But If I were married at 19 with a child by 20, I think I would have suffocated.
Yes, people can be single and happy. They can have friends and have fun and have lots of meaning in their lives without a spouse or children.
It doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to get married, but it may mean she doesn’t want to get married right now.
My SIL is in this boat. She is 21 and has no interest in dating whatsoever. If she meets someone, great. If not, she’ll wait until she is ready.
Personally, I think people being pushed to get married too young is awful.
