Reply To: Wife has an issue… Home › Forums › Decaffeinated Coffee › Wife has an issue… › Reply To: Wife has an issue… May 23, 2010 11:52 pm at 11:52 pm #685453 chesednameParticipant I would a) be dan lchaf zechus b) go with #3 in a very nice way, based on the tone of the letter, i hope you can be “nice” to him.