Reply To: Shidduch, I want ….They want …. Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Shidduch, I want ….They want …. › Reply To: Shidduch, I want ….They want …. February 8, 2010 8:43 pm at 8:43 pm #674053 WolfishMusingsParticipant and Rabbonim will advise on the side of the kids A “kid” does need to go to a rav to say no to a date. The Wolf