Both sides (men and women) need to be mature to get married. But when they are still called “boys and girls” rather than men and women, aren’t we telling them they aren’t mature?
Besides, when you give your kids everything and make them do nothing, how are they supposed to understand? How are they supposed to grow up and make decisions? How are they supposed to have a family and raise children and teach their own to be responsible? Its a problematic cycle.