Does anyone have a shred of evidence that there are more shalom bayis issues in couples where the boys is 22.5 and the girls is 21 vs. couples 23 – 19 yr.
clearly solving the shidduch crisis require boys to start dating every so slightly earlier and girls ever so slightly later. 22.5 21 instead of 23-19. There is no reason to think any harm would come from such change.