Thats the point- I dont think she even realizes that shes not being a good reference. She’s my age and shes getting calls for my sister- probably hurts so self consciously it comes out in her lack of enthusiasm when she gets calls abt her.
I’m still friends with her.
Either way I would recommend using married friends as references over single. I hear that mothers of boys trust them more and they have nothing to be jealous about. What do you have to lose?
btw, when my father told me who it was- I was totally thinking People Speak story! but i think this happens ALOT more than people realize cuz since then I’ve been hearing a couple of funny stories from people.