Reply To: Shidduchim Tips Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Shidduchim Tips › Reply To: Shidduchim Tips February 8, 2009 10:49 pm at 10:49 pm #642667 JosephParticipant JayMatt & tzipp: Ich farshtay nisht. Why is it more important that the girl never hear a “no”, then vice versa?