Bemused, That isn’t the point, what my personal situation is. This is a side-point. I just quoted a halacha that the goyim wouldn’t like. Does that mean we run away from it? An emphatic NO!
BTW, if a girl would have turned me down because I didn’t open the door for her, I would B’H be thankful to the Ribono Shel Olam for keeping me away from such a vain person. The Eibershter has many ways of protecting us.