Reply To: Dating Dilemmas Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Dating Dilemmas › Reply To: Dating Dilemmas August 20, 2008 7:04 pm at 7:04 pm #621205 jphoneMember Zalman. Call it what you want. If it would be called “mentchlech” would that make it any better? Why is calling it chivalry making it worse?