Aaq, if normal means right, than no it’s not normal. If normal means common or expected, then yes, every Jew struggles with something and fails often. We are not malachim. Catching someone in their weak moment, or picking up and someones general weakness, does not give you the right to “judge” them, wtvr that even means. You can feel bad that they have this bad mida and hope they can overcome it. Let’s be clear, this particular example isn’t that grievous, he made others miss a light? People are wronged on an infinitely higher level daily. Regardless of all this, what’s the nafka Mina, you want to know if you should stop a shiduch with his kids? If he’s kasher l’edut? What are we talking about here?
