YYA> he Chazon Ish (who’s Litvish credentials can’t be challenged) said basically the same thing. Our job is to be Mekarev Yidden, not to judge them
A student asked Chazon Ish whether he is allowed to say kiddush in front of his parents (kibutznikim, and the mother not dressed appropriately). To what Chazon Ish replied: and you found a place for chumros when you are in front of your parents?