Ujm, I am bringing her as an example that rabonim did not seem to object to her learning. Are you saying they were wrong based on the tragic outcome? Or maybe we need to conclude that husbands need to be more understanding of their learned wives instead of testing their psyche . In general, it is not a good idea to make up nisyonim, Hashem knows which ones are the right ones, but people don’t as in this example
