Yungerman
Though what you say is true, it doesn’t explain how so many families have a kid off the derech.
Why would the same parent/role model have several “regular “ kids and one off the derech when they all had the same role model ?
A few years ago I went to daven in an EY kollel with my brother. I saw the Rosh Kollel learning with a heavily tattooed young man. I commented to my brother how nice it is that this talmid chachum does kiruv. He said “that’s his son”
It’s a plague and I don’t think I’m ready to blame the parents.
