Excellent post, and if I may jump on that without hijacking it …
A neighbor who is lubavitch came to my house for something and did not recognize the gedolim who’s pictures I have in my living room. I also mentioned the dayan in the city by name and they did not recognize that name either. I mean he is a main posek and the dayan of the city. Not a glimmer of recognition. I am NOT asking for explanation (save that for Avrum), I am wanting to know if me saying that to you will be then called “shtuching”.
