Reply To: Is it reasonable to tell a 21 yr old boy to date a 24 yr old girl !!!!!! Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Is it reasonable to tell a 21 yr old boy to date a 24 yr old girl !!!!!! › Reply To: Is it reasonable to tell a 21 yr old boy to date a 24 yr old girl !!!!!! April 8, 2018 6:45 pm at 6:45 pm #1503682 ?RebYidd23Participant No. Don’t tell people who to date.