Reply To: Keeping Mental Illness A Secret In Shidduchim? ???? Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Keeping Mental Illness A Secret In Shidduchim? ???? › Reply To: Keeping Mental Illness A Secret In Shidduchim? ???? March 4, 2018 3:38 pm at 3:38 pm #1480656 ?RebYidd23Participant Are meds the same for men and for women? AFAIK, many of the side effects are not.