How can u know that you have less or more bitachon then your spouse? Just because you are verbal by saying i have bitachon means nothing. There is a very good reason for rabbeim and teachers push so hard for reading and understanding shar habitachon because its not simply s good read. Its a hsrgasha that has to become ingrained in a person. Its not like learning gemorah or chumash or halachos and then saying you know it. So how can someone know whether their spouse is less or More then them when it comes to bitachon.
