Agav here is a pshat you may find interesting
The pasuk says ????? ???? ??? ???? ???? ?????
The Targum says ???? ???? ????? ???????? ???? ??? ???? ????? ??????? ?????? ??????
So ???? is ???? and ??? is ???? ???????
The male’s strong point is ???? ???????, the female’s ????
???? ???? ???? but they have ???? ????
The Gemara in several places calls females ?????
So pshat in ??? ???? is you favor males with ??? and females with ????